When Emotions Feel Too Much, Therapy and Skills Can Help You Find Calm

Whether it’s trauma memories that won’t quiet down or the guilt of yelling at your kids, it can feel overwhelming. You don’t have to do this alone. With the support of a psychologist specialising in DBT and EMDR, you’ll learn practical emotion regulation skills to steady yourself, heal from the past, and build the calmer connections you’ve been longing for.

Therapy Support

For adults navigating trauma, overwhelming emotions, or relationship struggles.

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Parenting Support

For busy parents who want to yell less, feel calmer, and connect more with their kids.

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Are You Maxed Out, Reacting More Than You’d Like, and Wondering If You’re Broken?

Whether it’s snapping at your kids or spiralling through waves of emotion, it can feel like too much.
Like you’re the only one who can’t keep it together.
Like you’re failing: at parenting, at healing, at just…being okay.

Maybe you lose it, even when you swore you wouldn’t.

Maybe your body feels like it’s always on high alert and you don’t know how to turn it off.

Maybe you’re tired of being told to “just stay calm” when no one ever taught you how.

Or maybe you’re carrying shame that keeps telling you it’s too late to change.

You’re not broken. And you’re not alone.

Whether you're navigating the chaos of raising small humans, or the ache of trauma that still lives in your body;
this is a place for real, emotionally honest support.

Here, you’ll find:
Therapy that understands trauma - from a psychologist specialising in DBT and EMDR, with tools for both coping now and healing long-term.
Parenting support that focuses on you - practical emotion regulation skills so you can stop yelling, feel calmer, and connect more with your kids.

Start where you are.
Choose the path that fits.
And let’s walk it together: gently, steadily, with the tools you’ve always deserved.

Therapy and Parenting Support That Works

You don’t need to stay stuck in survival mode.
There are evidence-based, practical ways forward whether you’re healing from trauma or trying to parent without constant guilt and yelling.

Therapy Support

For adults carrying the weight of trauma, overwhelming emotions, or relationship struggles. Work 1:1 with a psychologist trained in DBT and EMDR to:

Process painful memories safely

Learn skills to regulate emotions and reduce spirals

Build a steadier, more hopeful way of living

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Parenting Support

For parents who feel worn out, reactive, and desperate for more calm at home.
Learn practical, doable skills to:

Stay calmer when your kids push your buttons

Break the cycle of guilt, yelling, and repair

Create stronger, safer connections with your children

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What You’ll Find Here That’s Hard to Find Elsewhere

Evidence-Based & Tailored

Whether it’s trauma therapy or parenting support, everything is grounded in evidence-based approaches, like DBT and EMDR, adapted to fit you, not a one-size-fits-all model.

Practical Tools You Can Use Straight Away

From your very first session or resource, you’ll walk away with coping skills you can use in real life, whether that’s calming a flashback or staying steady during a toddler meltdown.

You Set the Pace

This isn’t about rushing or pressure. We go at your speed, whether you’re unpacking trauma or learning to pause before yelling. Change is steady, safe, and realistic for your life.

 

Safety & Validation First

You deserve to feel seen and supported without judgment. Whether you’re a parent worn thin or an adult carrying trauma, this is a space built on safety, compassion, and trust.

 

Empowerment Through Understanding

You’ll learn how your brain and body respond to stress and emotions, and how to shift those patterns. Understanding brings compassion, confidence, and change that lasts.

Real Support, Rooted in Therapy and Skills That Meet You Where You Are

Overwhelm can show up in different ways: spiralling emotions that feel impossible to manage, or snapping at your kids when you swore you wouldn’t. Either way, it leaves you drained, ashamed, and wondering if change is even possible.

Here, support is designed to meet you where you are.

Sometimes that means 1:1 therapy to gently process trauma, make sense of emotions, and move forward at your own pace.

Sometimes it means practical, everyday tools to help you pause before yelling and build calmer connections at home.

There’s no rigid formula here, just consistent, safe support that adapts as you do.

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Hi, I’m Dr Nicola Sutton - psychologist and founder of The Emotional Wellbeing Hub.

I’m an HCPC-registered psychologist with over a decade of experience, specialising in DBT and EMDR. My work focuses on helping adults heal from trauma and overwhelming emotions, and supporting parents who want to feel calmer, yell less, and build stronger connections with their children.

This is a space for evidence-based strategies, real-life tools, and steady support, so you can move from survival mode to a life that feels calmer, safer, and more connected.

More About Me

Kind Words from Clients

The best part of my work is seeing people feel calmer, prouder, and more connected, whether that’s adults healing from trauma or parents building a more peaceful home. Here’s what some of my clients have shared.....

L.

I went to Dr Sutton for help regarding a previous medical trauma which was making me avoid certain tasks due to fear. She was so warm and supportive and set me at ease so quickly. Her recommended treatment was right on the money and after a few sessions of EMDR with Dr Sutton and my fear is gone!

L. 

Nicola is genuinely kind and compassionate. She truly cares about my wellbeing. I highly recommend her services to anyone seeking a compassionate and skilled psychologist. I am deeply appreciative of the positive impact she have had on my life. 

P. 

I found Dr Sutton extremely helpful and supportive, which allowed me to openly discuss anxiety and the ways to deal with it and focus the mind. I would not hesitate to recommend Dr Sutton to anyone to allow them easy access to assist them in their own emotional and mental wellbeing in the future.

Start Small, Begin Here

Whether you’re easing into therapy or looking for quick wins at home, here are simple ways to start feeling more grounded today.

Free Guide: Regulate Like A Calm(ish) Parent

Tired of snapping, yelling, or carrying guilt at the end of the day? This free guide gives you 5 practical skills to help you stay calmer in the chaos and handle tough parenting moments with more confidence.

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The Calm(ish) Parent Starter Guide – £15

Ready for a calmer start? This self-paced workbook gives you practical tools and reflections to shift your reactions, reduce guilt, and create more peaceful moments with your kids.

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Coming Soon: Self-Paced DBT Skills Course

Want practical skills to help you regulate emotions, manage distress, and feel more in control day to day? This upcoming DBT skills course will guide you step by step through mindfulness, distress tolerance, and emotion regulation, in a way that fits real life.

By joining the waitlist, you’ll get:

Early access when doors open

Exclusive discount only for waitlist members

First updates & behind-the-scenes previews

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Wherever You’re Starting, You’re Welcome Here.

Whether you’re ready for therapy, curious about learning DBT skills, or simply wanting calmer parenting days - this is a space to steady yourself, learn new tools, and feel supported as you grow.

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